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After interacting with a few friends and listening about friends of friends, I'm curious about one thing and I thought of posing this open question as my next post:
"Why're men so scared of commitment?"
I would really appreciate an honest answer.
15 comments:
Aren't you? It seems like you are also afraid of the commitment.
May be it is the same reason -
Better safe than to be sorry :P
@ Voice: So I'm either so scary or seemingly threatening that the guy would rather be safe than sorry. Thanks for clarifying that.
well i guess most are not ready .. they feel they would like to explore more options before settling down .. though when they do think of settling down then they can be taken seriously
if two people are in love and one hesitate to commit (Regardless of gender) then something is messy. May love is one sided / May be you are with wrong/confused person.
@ Shady: so when do they get ready? in their 40's, 50's, before dying?
@ Dev B: guess you're right. And thanks for dropping in a comment :) Your earlier one also seemed correct. why did you remove it?
I think nobody wants to die alone :)
It's so final...
in general i think girls look for stability in life while guys don't want stability at least when they are in their twenties....they want to try out many things, shifting from place to place and from one job to another
You would rarely find guys with well furnished flats etc..I am not trying to trivialize commitment by comparing it with furniture...I am just trying to explain how a guy might think
Commitment is so contrary to their attitude, what they want....
Sonik - Deleted because concept of natural cold feet couldn't last long.
@ shady: no one wants to die alone but no one wants to get tied for life either!
@ anonymous: so basically both genders aren't meant to be together!
It's just a phase....guys stabilize in their late twenties or early thirties
I dunno, I'm almost 30 and guys my age are still living as if they just entered their 20's
He he.....just wait.....there won't be any gradual change or anything....in one of their birthdays a guy will say "yaar faltoo ka c*****pa kar rahe hain" and it will be "Let there be light" moment...
they will realize...baat mein point hai...
+1 to what the Anon posted!
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